關於堅持的英文演講稿（通用18篇）

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇1

Miserable childhood, though, in a single run everywhere helpless when his suffering silently chewing, but Anderson hasn't abandon your dreams, make great efforts to pursue their own a beautiful life. His experience let us tears, his success let us sad heart was comforted, see the sunshine breath.

Everyone can freedom of singing, in their own ways. Anderson, in the beautiful fairy tale and found his own kingdom. In the real world, if there is no hope, no struggle of strong, it is difficult to find a way out. Andersen with his success tells us: grappling, never give up your dream, someday "ugly duckling" will become "white swan". We believe, in real life, as long as along the dream footprint, trying to chase, even experience more anguish, endure treated unfairly, that are temporary, long after the shells of suffering, can become a colorful butterfly.

Fairy tale is bright, hard, you can create, hard, you can achieve. Continuous pursuit of life, is colourful life is brilliant gorgeous life.

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇2

The dream is beautiful, it is the moral nature most beautiful expectation; The dream is the sunlight, it causes the human to move toward steadfastness by the impetuousness, by paces back and forth moves toward firmly, and moves toward successfully.

Each person life will have the innumerable dreams, some forever will not be perhaps realistic, so long as but paid has tried hard, will not regret; But tumbles after these was deliberately bad the dejected person, the dream was forever could also not arrive other shore, has not been assorted with the dream the difference.

In begins school in the first class classroom. Mr./Mrs. Ma Yun introduced for us loses double arm's Brother - Yang the Meng graduated arm. After Yang Meng Hengda Brother loses the double arm, has not given up, he has fallen in love with the sports, in the Paralympic Game seed trials, he failed to be elected. He is very painful, but he thought that his first time tumbles merely, the following road is also very long, therefore his heavy tree confidence, diligently and melted strongly in the same place turned the success, but succeeded the behind, was the countless sweat and the teardrops.

I once had heard a such story: Some team, trained assiduously has been very long, actually did not have to progress little, they even thought to dismiss, therefore trained them has called, said to them: “you know player Tom?”The members shake the head. The training also said that “that you know Mr. Belli?” “knows!”The members replied together. “your person or Tom are not because Tom tumbles again time gave up, but Mr. Belli said unceasingly in the rugged steps to success to oneself: the `success will be certainly will tumble several times, insisted, you may! 'because his insistence, therefore he has become the giant star who the people all know. How on the successful road can not rough? If Lian Zhei could not endure, how to realize the dream?”

The dream is ever does not say abandons, strives for success diligently energetic resistance, if we look like Yang Meng Heng Brother, Brother Liu Wei, remembers Chinese elder sister such, adds on the spiritual which and the intravenous drip tear and the perspiration again in the dream foundation never gives up, but also has is assorted cannot achieve?

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇3

We often hear people say, “Never give up.” These can be encouraging words and words of determination. A person who believes in them will keep trying to reach his goal no matter how many times he fails. In my opinion, the quality of determination to succeed is an important one to have. Therefore, I believe that we should never give up.

One reason is that if we give up too easily, we will rarely achieve anything. It is not unusual for us to fail in our first attempt at something new, so we should not feel discouraged and should try again. Besides, if we always give up when we fail, we will not be able to develop new skills and grow as people. Another reason we should never give up is that we can learn from our mistakes only if we make a new effort. If we do not try again, the lesson we have learned is wasted. Finally, we should never give up because as we work to reach our goals, we develop confidence, and this confidence can help us succeed in other areas of our lives. If we never challenge ourselves, we will begin to doubt our abilities.

In short, it is important that we do not give up when working for our goals. Whether we succeed in the end or not, we will learn something, and what we learn will help us to become better, more confident people. Furthermore, if we give up, we have non chance of attaining our.

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇4

Tonight, my mother invite her friends to come to dinner. So my motherprepare a lot of food, she even cooks the new food, which I never taste mother’s friends praise her a lot, which makes my mother so happy. The foodmy mother cooks is so delicious, I love to eat them so much. I am so happy tohave such a good mother.

金晚,我媽媽邀請她的朋友來吃晚飯。因此媽媽準備了很多的食物,她甚至煮了新的飯菜,只是我以前從來沒有嘗過的。媽媽的朋友們都讚美她，這讓她很高興。媽媽煮的食物,非常美味,我喜歡吃。我很高興有這樣一個好媽媽。

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇5

Do you know what dish is the most popular in the cold winter in China? Iknow it’s hot pot. Hot pot is a Chinese tasteful folk dish. No matter in thenorth or in the south people like hot pot very much and every region has itslocal features. For example Sihuan hot pot is hot while Guangdong hot pot isfamous for its fresh. Usually there is a metal hot pot in the middle of the soup in the pot is kept simmering dishes are put into the pot. Beefmutton fish and vegetables are the main dishes. It is extremely popular inwinter because it can keep the dishes warm all the time. And the atmosphere ishot too. Friends or relatives sit down together to have a feast. It’s a good wayto relax.

在我國，你知道冬天什麼食物最受歡迎嗎?我知道是火鍋。火鍋是我國的民間美食，不管是北方還是南方，人們都愛吃火鍋，而每個地方的火鍋也有自身的地域特點。比如，四川火鍋是辣的而廣東的火鍋則以味道鮮美著稱。通常來説，吃火鍋時，會在桌子的中間放一個金屬鍋，當鍋裏的湯料沸騰時，就可以把菜放到火鍋裏了。牛肉、羊肉、魚和蔬菜都是火鍋的主要食材。火鍋在冬天大受歡迎是因為它能一直保持熱度，並且吃火鍋的氣氛很熱烈，親人朋友團座一桌，享受大餐，這是一種很放鬆的就餐方式。

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇6

good morning, ladies and gentlemen. today i want to tell you a story about one of my friends, a lovely and smart girl who is always ready to help others. being our grade leader, she is good at both work and study. in many people's opinion, she is excellent and perfect. but one day she told me she was gloomy and insecure. people around her considered her outstanding and flawless, thinking she could handle everything. but the more she thought about herself, the more disappointed she became. she found that she was far from perfection. last week, she didn't do well in her french quiz, and the day before yesterday, she was late for a conference. she felt depressed and frustrated, because she failed to be a perfect girl without any mistakes.

i was surprised to hear that for i thought she had every reason to be confident. however, the expectation of perfection has become a burden to her. i told her no one could be perfect and i suggested she find her own position.

in fact, people are so eager to be perfect that they demand too much of themselves. they want to be special and unique, and they want to have no defects or weaknesses. however, we can never avoid mistakes and errors. it's impossible for us to be a superman or a superwoman. no matter how successful we are, there are always some flaws. if we hold that everything should be perfect, we would be overcritical.

my friend now has changed her attitude. she accepts her shortcomings but still keeps a positive outlook. she is even more active and doesn't allow the mistakes to hinder her pursuit of excellence. and i think that's the way we should be!that's all. thank you!

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇7

"no one need be afraid" -- the north carolina ratification convention -- "no one need be afraid that officers who commit oppression will pass with immunity." "prosecutions of impeachments will seldom fail to agitate the passions of the whole community," said hamilton in the federalist papers, number 65. "we divide into parties more or less friendly or inimical to the accused."³ i do not mean political parties in that sense.

the drawing of political lines goes to the motivation behind impeachment; but impeachment must proceed within the confines of the constitutional term "high crime[s] and misdemeanors." of the impeachment process, it was woodrow wilson who said that "nothing short of the grossest offenses against the plain law of the land will suffice to give them speed and effectiveness. indignation so great as to overgrow party interest may secure a conviction; but nothing else can."

common sense would be revolted if we engaged upon this process for petty reasons. congress has a lot to do: appropriations, tax reform, health insurance, campaign finance reform, housing, environmental protection, energy sufficiency, mass transportation. pettiness cannot be allowed to stand in the face of such overwhelming problems. so today we are not being petty. we are trying to be big, because the task we have before us is a big one.

this morning, in a discussion of the evidence, we were told that the evidence which purports to support the allegations of misuse of the cia by the president is thin. we're told that that evidence is insufficient. what that recital of the evidence this morning did not include is what the president did know on june the 23rd, 1972.

the president did know that it was republican money, that it was money from the committee for the re-election of the president, which was found in the possession of one of the burglars arrested on june the 17th. what the president did know on the 23rd of june was the prior activities of e. howard hunt, which included his participation in the break-in of daniel ellsberg's psychiatrist, which included howard hunt's participation in the dita beard itt affair, which included howard hunt's fabrication of cables designed to discredit the kennedy administration.

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇8

The Importance of Keeping Optimistic

Honourable judges, ladies and gentlemen, Good afternoon! Today I would liketo talk about the importance of keeping optimistic. When we encounterdifficulties in life, we notice that some of us choose to bury their heads inthe sand. Unfortunately, however, this attitude will do you no good, because ifyou will have no courage even to face them, how can you conquer them? Thus, beoptimistic, ladies and gentlemen, as it can give you confidence and help you seeyourself through the hard times, just as Winston Churchill once said, “Anoptimist sees an opportunity in every calamity; a pessimist sees a calamity inevery opportunity.”

Ladies and Gentlemen, keeping optimistic, you will be able to realize, inspite of some hardship, there’s always hope waiting for you, which will lead youto the ultimate success. Historically as well as currently, there are too manyoptimists of this kind to enumerate. You see, Thomas Edison is optimistic; ifnot, the light of hope in his heart could not illuminate the whole world. AlfredNobel is optimistic; if not, the explosives and the prestigious Nobel Prizewould not have come into being. And Lance Armstrong is also optimistic; if not,the devil of cancer would have devoured his life and the world would not see a5-time winner of the Tour De France. A rose may be beautiful, or maybe not; thatdepends on your attitude only, and so does success, so does life. Hindrances anddifficulties do exist, but if you are optimistic, then they are only episodes onyour long way to the throne of success; they are more bridges than obstacles!Now I prefer to end my speech with the great British poet Shelley’s lines: “Ifwinter comes, can spring be far behind? Thank you!

尊敬的評委、女士們、先生們：

下午好!今天我想談一談保持樂觀的重要性。我們注意到，當在生活中遇到困難時，我們中的有些人選擇逃避它們。但令人遺憾的是，這樣的態度對你沒有任何好處，因為如果你連面對它們的勇氣都沒有的話，你怎麼去征服它們呢?因此，樂觀起來吧，女士們、先生們，因為它會帶給你信心，幫助你渡過難關。正如温斯頓?丘吉爾所説，“樂觀者在每次災難中都看到機遇;悲觀者在每次機遇中都看到災難”。

女士們，先生們，困難是存在的，但如果你保持樂觀，你就會意識到永遠有希望在等着你，它會把你領向最終的成功。不管是歷史上還是現實中，這樣的樂觀者總是不勝枚舉。你看，托馬斯?愛迪生是樂觀的，如果不是的話，他心中那希望的明燈就不能照亮整個世界;阿爾弗雷德?諾貝爾是樂觀的，如果不是的話，那炸藥和享有很高聲望的諾貝爾獎就不會誕生;蘭斯?阿姆斯特朗也是樂觀的，如果不是的話，那癌症的病魔早已吞噬了他的生命，這個世界就會少了一位五屆環法自行車賽冠軍得主.

玫瑰花可能很美，也可能不美，這，僅僅取決於你的態度;而成功也如此，人生也如此。困難和阻礙的確存在，但是如果你很樂觀的話，那它們就僅僅是我們通向勝利之冠的漫長道路上的小插曲;與其説它們是障礙，不如説它們是橋樑!此刻，我想以偉大的英國詩人雪萊的一句詩來作為我的結尾：“冬天來了，春天還會遠嗎?”

謝謝!

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇9

Bring It all Back 找回自己 Don't stop, never give up, Hold your head high Reach the top. Let the world see what you have got, Bring it all back to you.

Hold on what you try to be, Your individuality. When the world is on your shoulders, Just smile and let it go. If people try to put you down, Just walk on by, don't turn around, You only have to answer to yourself.

Don't you know it's true what they say, That life, it isn't easy, But your time's coming around, So don't you stop trying.

Dream of falling in love, Anything you've been thinking of, When the world seems to get too tough, Bring it all back to you.

Try not to worry 'bout a thing. Enjoy the times life can bring. Keep it all inside you, Gotta let the feelings show.

Imagination is the key, 'Cause you are your own destiny. You never should be lonely, When time is on your side.

Don't you know it's true what they say, Things are sent to try you. But your time's coming around, So don't you stop trying.

Don't you know it's true what they say, Things happen for a reason. But your time's coming around, So don't you stop trying.

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇10

when i was nine years old i went off to summer camp for the first time. and my mother packed me a suitcase full of books, which to me seemed like a perfectly natural thing to do. because in my family, reading was the primary group activity. and this might sound antisocial to you, but for us it was really just a different way of being social. you have the animal warmth of your family sitting right next to you, but you are also free to go roaming around the adventureland inside your own mind. and i had this idea that camp was going to be just like this, but better. (laughter) i had a vision of 10 girls sitting in a cabin cozily reading books in their matching nightgowns.

(laughter)

camp was more like a keg party without any alcohol. and on the very first day our counselor gathered us all together and she taught us a cheer that she said we would be doing every day for the rest of the summer to instill camp spirit. and it went like this: “r-o-w-d-i-e, that's the way we spell rowdie. rowdie, rowdie, let's get rowdie.“ yeah. so i couldn't figure out for the life of me why we were supposed to be so rowdy, or why we had to spell this word incorrectly. (laughter) but i recited a cheer. i recited a cheer along with everybody else. i did my best. and i just waited for the time that i could go off and read my books.

but the first time that i took my book out of my suitcase, the coolest girl in the bunk came up to me and she asked me, “why are you being so mellow?“ -- mellow, of course, being the exact opposite of r-o-w-d-i-e. and then the second time i tried it, the counselor came up to me with a concerned expression on her face and she repeated the point about camp spirit and said we should all work very hard to be outgoing.

and so i put my books away, back in their suitcase, and i put them under my bed, and there they stayed for the rest of the summer. and i felt kind of guilty about this. i felt as if the books needed me somehow, and they were calling out to me and i was forsaking them. but i did forsake them and i didn't open that suitcase again until i was back home with my family at the end of the summer.

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇11

Today, I and my brother family to go to the movies, "the young drift fantasy adventure".

We with a happy mood to the cinema. The hero in the movie is a child named pie, one day, the family to move, just to the ship, was under the storm, the relentless storm blew the ship have to pitch, yaw have capsized may at any time, adhere to the ship's lifeboat sent quickly jumped, while others are prepared to jump, all of a sudden, the ropes of the boat was broken, the men jumped out of the sea, unfortunately the ship had more sank in the sea, only one survived. Send lonely sitting on a lifeboat wailing over their heads. Suddenly, a dog named Charlie parker, Bengal tiger ran out from the inside of the canopy on the lifeboat, frighten sent up in the bow, saw Charlie parker and didn't mean to hurt him, because the sea wind, cold, and gradually on the together for warmth. Before long, they became good friends. I do not know how long did it take, lifeboat finally drifted to a small island, they happily running around on the beach, but the next day sent best friend - Charlie parker ran into the forest and then never came back. Over the past six months, didn't find a lot of place. Day, derived collapsed, fortunately, to archaeology discovered the set on the island, ready to bring his file a city, outlying islands before sent to cry very sad, not because the saved excitedly cry, but is worried about his best friend Charlie parker, if anything happened.

I see the film, not only deeply immersed in the plot of the film, sometimes nervous, sometimes moved in tears, and I also grow some extracurricular knowledge.

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇12

my dream

everyone has a dream. i often ask myself. when i was a little boy, i wanted to be a soldier with a gun so that i could defend our i am a young boy with a new dream——to be a doctor. i want to be a famous doctor, helping the sick and saving their lives.

i also saw some people who were suffering and dying of ill-nesses. i made up my mind to become a doctor, so that i can help the sick people and cure them of their diseases. china is a develop-ing country. she needs good medicine and good doctors, especially in the countryside and lonely villages.

i want to try my best to help the poor sick people of our country. i want to let them have an opportunity to receive excel-lent treatments for their illnesses without having to pay much or any money.

i'll do every bit to cure the incurable. i hope to see a world where there is no cancer, no aids, no fatal diseases. i'm confident that through the joint efforts of you and me, man will put an end to his bodily sufferings and this dream of mine will one day be brought into reality.

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇13

In my 18 years of life, there have been many things. University days are the best part of them. I can never forget the days when I stepped into my university. I was impressed by its garden'like campus, its enthusiastic students and especially its learning atmosphere. I at once fell in love with it.

After the arduous military training, I get absolutely absorbed in my studies. The classes given by the teachers are excellent. They provide us with information not only from our textbooks but from many other sources as well. They easily arouse my insatiable desire to take in as much as I can.

Frankly speaking, at first I had some difficulty following the teachers. However, through my own efforts and thanks to my teachers' guidance, I made remarkable progress. Now I've benefited a lot from lectures and many other academic reports.

Learning is a long process; I'll keep exploring in the treasure house of knowledge to enrich myself. This summer I got out of the ivory tower and entered the real world. A publishing house offered me a part'time job in compilation and revision.

At the beginning I was belittled by my colleagues. But they were really surprised when I translated seven English articles over 5,000 words on only one day. Gradually, they began to look at me with respectful eyes. In their opinion I turned out to be a useful and trustworthy colleague.

I also realize that only those who bring happiness for others can be truly happy. So I often take part in activities concerning public welfare. I once went to a barren mountain village with my classmates. We taught the kids there who could not afford school. While showing them how broad and how civilized the outer world is, I was deeply touched by their eagerness to learn, their honesty and their purity. I couldn't control my tears on the day when we left. The precious experience with the poor kids made me aware of the responsibility on the shoulders of us, future teachers.

Besides study and social practice, there are entertainments as well. I do body building every day, hoping to keep healthy and energetic. We also write a play and put it on in our spare time.

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇14

The footsteps of the 20xx world expo is getting closer and closer to us, civilized and harmonious call is still ringing in my ears. shanghai, china obtained the right to host the world expo 20xx, expo 20xx shanghai china will be a world event, the development of shanghai's new round of golden opportunity, as it is an important embodiment of our national spirit.

World expo is a great influence and a long history of international activities, is the largest gathering of human beings. people from around the world gathered in one place display their products and skills, boast of their hometown and motherland. expo set the culmination of human civilization, which has a unique appeal, make you feel surging.

World expo is a platform, we are the masters. she put up a platform for us to let the world know us; she built a bridge for us, so we better communicate with the world. this platform may let us display self wantonly. we are the masters here, we have to landlord, let guest experience enthusiasm and happiness.

Everyone to contribute for the expo, we are no exception, as a living piece of fertile land in pudong's teachers, we are proud and pride. in the vision of a better tomorrow, we have to do for the world expo will own a wonderful ability, we have through our hands, warm heart and sincerity to practical action to achieve the commitment of shanghai to the world. we should educate the many students: do not throw garbage anywhere, no spitting, no jaywalking … …

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇15

If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.

Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇16

Hello everybody!

My name is , years old this year. In July I Normal School Art Teacher Fine Arts graduate program at their own expense. As from 97 countries no longer their own expense since health package distribution, so that I and "the most brilliant career under the sun" missed. Fortunately, at River West Malaysia factory complete lack of small teacher, was introduced, small as I completed one year of the temporary supply teachers. Recall that period of time both sweet and really good, although substitute low wages, but listening to students around the side of "teacher", "teacher" is called a stop, looked full of confidence which both eyes, then draw a childish little face, all the unhappiness in life have suddenly vanished. I wanted, if not to positive, as long as the school needs, that is, when the life I willingly substitute teachers. But then, countries started in 1998 and return of temporary and substitute teachers, the school received an oral notice,

I harbored feelings reluctantly and quietly left the school.

Today, I would like to re-examination by the aspirations of the rostrum is so urgent! My family a total of three sisters, two sisters who work, in order to take care of the elderly parents, I have to stay around them. I have held a shop, first operational craft, then garments. But no matter how the business is handy, when a teacher is always glorious people yearn for and I would like to make every effort to pursue life-long career. I have to take the test several times, but for various reasons are unable to realize their dreams, but I secretly determined, given the chance, I have been test continue until the ideal realized.

Today, I am, after the test of life, compared to my competitors in terms of age I no longer have an advantage, but I'm more than a child they love, patience and sense of responsibility, more of a mature and self-confidence. The teaching profession is sacred and great, he asked teachers not only must be knowledgeable, but also a noble sentiment. Therefore, when reading normal, I paid great attention to their overall development, to train its own extensive interests, and learned a trade, be good at painting and calligraphy than outside, but also sing, say, will speak. "High school only as a teacher, inspires them for the Fan" in the knowledge-learning and I also paid attention to develop their own high moral character, consciously abide by the law, abide by social morality, no bad habits and behavior. I think these are an educator should have the minimum literacy.

If, I passed the interview, Chengweizhongduo Teacher Groups in 成員 I shall keep Nuli study and work hard, my hometown of Jiao Yu force ourselves to the cause, never let down, "the human soul," a major title.

Thank you!

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇17

on my birthday two years ago, many special things happened on me. and i would

remember them forever.

that morning, i rode my bike to school happily as usual. on my way to the

classroom, i saw some of my classmates. but when they saw me, they rushed away. that made me confused. because they would talk to me or play jokes on me before. but it was strange today.

when i came into the classroom, i found the atmosphere was quite strange.

everybody looked at me and laughed loudly. suddenly they all said in good order,“happy birthday to you!” then they began to sing “happy birthday to you~~~~~~” that made me moved. i never told anyone about my birthday, how did they know? i believed they must have done a lot of things. at that moment, i found nothing to say but thanks instead!

after school, a thing coming as a surprise happened on me on my way back home. when i was riding suddenly a crowed of people rushed out to stopped my bike.i recogized them at once. they were my senior classmates. they all comlained to me,“why don't you tell us about your birthday? don't you fear that we will let you stand treat? this time you owe us.” then each of them gave a gift and a card with best wishes to me. i was deeply moved again. i suggested having a dinner together. but they all refused because of the time. then they left me saying we would ask you to pay us another day!

when i got back home, i thought of everything happened today. suddenly i felt so happy because i had such great friends around me. i thanked them from the bottom of my heart. i would value the precious friendship forever!

i have so many feelings through that special day. the only rose without thorns in the world is friendship. a true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart. truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget. one friend in a lifetime is much, two are many, three are hardly possible. stick to make friends, forlife without friends is like life on a desert island. to find one real friend in a lifetime is good fortune, to keep him is a blessing.

thank you for your attention!

關於堅持的英文演講稿 篇18

amatory love has been a mystery for ages. there's neither a criterion to judge nor a common rule to follow. nobody can tell the exact reasons why love emerges. it is not always because of beauty (the ugly doorkeeper quasimodo in the hunchback of notre dame is loved by the beautiful gypsy girl esmeralda),nor kindness (hitler also has his mistress),nor wisdom ( even the blockhead may sometimes marry a beautiful girl),nor strength (some love starts from sympathy) love is like getting an electric shock, shaking our soul. it is a sweet dream, a kind of intoxication, indulgence, and endless passion.

true love doesn't need a long time to grow up, to make clear the family tree of the other, neither does it needs the time to look ahead and behind again and again. love is not marriage, which usually starts from love, but doesn't always depend on love to maintain. long-lasting marriage can eventually turn into a kind of family love, a kind of companionship which preserves the companion but loses the passion. love is often an wink of the eye, or a smile that hints mutual understanding. in spite of the great distance between them, people may fall in love incidentally. hence the saying “a distant marriage is tied up with a mysterious thread”. love needs passion, and it can stand bumps and stumbles, ups and downs, complaints and blames. when it turns into a pool of water, especially dead water, without any billows or waves, it's time for it to die.